A Little Update...

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We had such a busy, busy week last week so I wasn't able to keep this blog updated. I just got the chance right now to check on what's new around here real quick. It's so good to be back, though I won't stay here that long for now. It's still too early and I am kind of sleepy still [hehehe]. I just woke up to prepare my husband's lunch for today that he took with him to work. And of course, not only that. I always want to be around every morning before he leaves for work. It's our little thing here - we make sure [if he has enough time] we sit and eat breakfast together every morning :) It always feels great to start our day that way.

I have so many to blog about our busy week, especially our Memorial Day weekend. It's my first ever holiday experience here in the States so I am not letting that slip away.

But, I have to go back to sleep for now. I will be writing more here soon :)
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8 Random Things

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Just something for fun that I found while blog hopping...

8 things I' m looking forward to:
1. The birth of our first child..Photobucket
2. Finally meeting Sophie and Nani..
3. My sister's arrival here in the States..
4. Be able to eat sweets again..[hahaha] It's a big "No No" right now especially when my husband is around..
5. Start driving lesson :)
6. Go drifting with my husband :)
7. Get me to school here in the US
8. Vacations: This Christmas to my Mom-in-law's place in Oklahoma and next year to the Philippines [God willing]

8 things I did yesterday:
1. Cross-stitching
2. Went to NTC for my prenatal check-up
3. Bought groceries with my husband
4. Cooked chicken liver [I miss Pinoy food]
5. Watched TV
6. Talked to my cousins on YM
7. Took a shower
8. Played with the iPhone

8 things I wish I could do:
1. FLY!!Photobucket
2. Eat a lot of chocolate right now!! [I miss snickers and all kinds of chocolate out there!!]
3. See my family right now even just on webcam..
4. Walk on the moon..[my childhood dream that I know for sure now, will remain just a dream..]
5. Drive a car :)
6. Write a book
7. Dance!! [I'm not good at it..]
8. And last but not the least: To see my dearest Grandpa one more time..I miss him so, so much!!Photobucket

8 shows I watch:
1. Food Network [all about cooking]
2. Judge Brown
3. Judge Judy
4. Deadliest Catch [on Discovery Channel]
5. Rescue Me
6. NCSI
7. Wizards of Waverly Place
8. KUSI News
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Mr. and Mrs. John's Weekend

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Let's not just include Saturday here because we didn't really go out that day. I stayed at home the whole time because I wasn't feeling well.

Yesterday was such a beautiful Sunday :) We started our day out with a lunch at a Mexican Restaurant in Imperial Beach. We both wanted to eat Mexican food yesterday, so that's where he took me.

Right after lunch, we drove around the area and he showed me Mexico from across the border. We drove past Silver Strands and ended up at Gator beach, which is part of the Naval Base. He showed me the place where he used to do most of his trainings. It's such a beautiful place to relax and it was my first time to ever walk along the beach feeling cold!! [hehehe] The breeze was so cold, it gave me goosebumps. And oh my, when I tried to play in the water, it was cold as well. I was like a little kid and I saw how my husband would laugh at how I was acting like being out there. We walked along the beach, took photos with his mobile phone (we didn't know we'd end up being there, so yet again, I forgot the camera) and then we started heading out. It was such a wonderful feeling of having sands all over our feet. I missed being at the beach and just playing in the sand and water. I missed home!!

We started driving towards Spring Valley, but John didn't tell me right away where he was taking me. I got surprised when I noticed we were driving towards the mountain area. He showed me the places that got affected by the huge fire way back in 2007. We drove past Jamul and some other places, too but I forgot their names.

Anyway, he took me up to where he and his friends would go for mountain driving. Basically, a good place to go drifting. It's such a picturesque place to go to - I felt so close to God while we were up there. It was so quiet. All you can hear was the breeze, the sound of water flowing from a small creek, birds chirping, and some cars passing by. It was kind of hot up there but the view around us was too beautiful for us to even feel or notice the heat of the sun. Plus, the breeze was cool so it was tolerable. We stayed there for almost 20 minutes, then he started driving back down.

I don't know how far we've drove, but on our way back, we passed through a border patrol. John, on our way there, had let me prepare my ID just in case they asked for it on our way back. When I asked him why, he told me we'll be driving close to where the Mexican border is that's why they'll ask for IDs or citizenship on our way back. Luckily, they didn't ask for anything. We stopped for a few seconds, the border patrol man just looked at us and then let us through. I had so much fun driving around with my husband and I really am so happy that he takes time to take me to places and show me around San Diego area!!

We stopped by in Rancho to get something to drink. On our way back to the car, we spotted an AT&T store. And since we've been looking around to get me a new phone, we decided to go inside and take a look at what they have in there. John asked if they have iPhone and when the guy there told us they do have it, we started looking at the phone.

My husband knows that I am used to using cellphone with keypad, so I was really hesitant to get a phone that doesn't have it. But, I need to have one for emergency purposes especially that he's always out at work during the day so I had no choice. I looked at phones with keypad, but I couldn't find a phone that I like. Or at least like the Nokia that I was using in the Philippines. John let me chose if I want the same phone that he has or the iPhone. Since they're the same, touch-screen phones, I went with the iPhone. I didn't know he was going to get me a new phone on that same day, so I was really surprised when he said he was getting me one. I felt so grateful to him and happy that now I have my own phone. I no longer have to worry about contacting him anytime, anywhere and my family back home can call me or text me anytime they want to. Having a phone here is a necessity. And now that I have my own, I am worry-free!!Photobucket

After we got the phone, we drove back home, but stopped first to get us food for dinner.

..And that's how we spent our Sunday ;)
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I Miss Eating Sweets!!

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Before I got pregnant, I could eat as many sweets as I want - of my choice - anytime of the day. Even before I found out that I am pregnant, I've been eating a lot of sweets till basically my husband got to the Philippines in April. Everything completely changed for me from that time he got there.

I've always loved eating sweets, especially chocolates so you can't imagine the torment I am going through right now every time I want to eat sweets and my husband won't let me.Photobucket Hey, don't get me wrong. He's a very sweet and loving husband. It's just his way of making sure I don't eat too much sugar while pregnant. It's me who's being hardheaded here. But really sometimes it's just too hard to contain myself especially when I want to eat sweets so bad. He would give me just enough, but for me, since I am used to eating a lot of it, I never get the satisfaction that I am craving for. I know my husband is doing the right thing. Eating too much sweets while pregnant can cause a lot of bad effects on me and the baby. I could get gestational diabetes and have it for the rest of my life if untreated or I could have a hard time delivering a big baby if I didn't watch what I am eating right now.

That's why...

Though I miss eating sweets a lot, I do my best now to listen to what my husband says. In fact, I still have to be thankful that at least he lets me have some [just enough sweets] once every other day and he really makes sure he watches what I eat - healthy dietPhotobucket And in making sure I am eating healthy, I must say, he's doing such a great job!!

He's right in every way. It might be tough on me these times, but I surely am going to thank him for everything he's doing for me and our baby right now.
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My First Hospital Visit

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Yesterday was my first ever hospital visit here in the States. First thing we did, we went to Tricare to get me enrolled in the program. It's a program for [Military] active duty family members, reserve component members, and their families. It is where I'll be having my first pre-natal check-up here, too which will be on Wednesday, the 20th of this month.

Getting me enrolled wasn't as quick and as easy as we thought it would be. Well, it could have been if we weren't given a 30-page form to fill out!! My husband was even joking around that by the time we finished filling out the forms, I'd already be in my labor. [hahaha] It was more of a patient-interview form which basically collects information about my health history. It was all right doing that stuff, only that it kind of took a lot of time from us.

The nurse who talked to us was helpful. She asked me some questions especially with regards to my pregnancy because she needed information to be able to get a schedule for me for a pre-natal check-up. Since I did all of my previous check-ups in the Philippines, including lab tests, she ordered that I do a new set of lab tests here since I have no record yet. She told me that I need to have my blood sugar tested. She also gave me a new pre-natal medication, the Prenatal S Dietary Supplement. Now, I'd only be taking one tablet a day instead of two. Anyway, I was supposed to do the lab test at that hospital, but since we found an error in the DEERS system, she asked us to go to Balboa to have it updated. She will just then forward the request for my lab test to get done there. So, off we drove to Balboa.

It didn't take us long to get there. First, we went to get the DEERS updated then got me a blue card that I'll be using for my medical records. The lady there told us that it's what I'll be using every time I go to any military hospital if in case I need my medical records. After that, we went to the laboratory to get my blood test done.

Well, it turned out to be not just a blood test - I also had to get urinalysis. It was quick, though so it was totally fine with me, until the nurse told me that before they could extract blood from me, I need to drink a soda-like orange juice that's high in sugar. Not only that. We had to wait for another hour after drinking that juice before they could perform blood extraction. It could have been just fine for me, yet again - but we were already so hungry at the time and I wasn't allowed to eat anything until the whole process is done. I had to let my husband at least get something to eat, but he insisted he'd wait till it's over so we could eat together. That was so sweet and nice of him!! I hope he knows how much I appreciated that small, yet very touching gesture he did for me :)

I got back to the lab at 15:45. It was my turn when I got there so I didn't have to wait anymore. When the nurse took out a blood collection tube, I let out a sigh of relief - oh, well just one - this would be so quick!! I'm not scared of needles. I actually love it, but at that very moment, all I had in mind was food. I was so hungry so you just can't imagine how shocked I was when she started taking out 6 more!! I was like, WTF?! Seven blood collection tubes!? Mama Mia!! It was the largest amount of blood ever extracted out of my system - and that kind of made me feel swooning right after the last tube got filled with my blood. I wanted to pass out right then and there but I remained calm and collected. After that, I was good to go. I hurriedly went out of the lab, went straight to meet up with John, who stayed at the store trying to purchase a booklet of coupons and See's candies. He wasn't able to get either one because for some reason, the credit card machine [I don't know what else to call it] didn't work. We just left and went to Westfield-Horton Plaza to get something to eat. We ate at Great Khan's and took some food home with us.

It was pretty much how we spent our day yesterday. It was a little tiring but we're happy we got everything taken care of. Now, I am in the Tricare program!! :) Thanks to God for all the help He's given us!!Photobucket
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My First Weekend in San Diego

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Adjusting to a totally different environment could have never been this easy for me if not for the help of my loving husband. He really makes sure all the time that I am taken care of. Though I'm left alone every time he goes to work, he makes it up to me by taking me out for a drive when he comes home.

My first Friday night here was spent at his buddy, Fred's house. He also invited a couple of friends, and there, I finally met John's chief, Mike and his buddies' wives, Sandra and Amanda [Fred's wife]. It was basically a "Boys' Night of Drinking", but we, the wives who were there had fun, too :) They prepared a delicious meal for us; grilled steak, pork barbecue, and for the first time, I got to taste shark!! Yes, they grilled one, too and I must say, it tasted really good. But, I only had a small bite. Mercury content found in big fish is not good for pregnant women. Oh, well -- there's always a next time ;) [hehehe]

We only stayed there until 22:30. We needed to sleep early because we still had to drive up to Rialto early morning of the following day to pick up some car rims that he purchased online.

As early as 7am, both of us were already up. We took shower, ate breakfast and by 8:30, we were already on our way.

The 1-hour-and-56-minute-drive to Rialto was fun!! I got to see different places here in California. We drove past Temecula, San Bernardino, and Riverside to name a few. The mountain view was so breath-taking that I couldn't help but admire its beauty. Behind that remarkable feeling I had at that very moment, was a silent sadness deep within me. Everything I saw that day made me miss my family back home. I wished they could have seen those places, too. I wished they were here so they could have felt the same way I did. If only they're not too far away. If only ... for sure they could have enjoyed it as well like I had.

We only stopped once at a gas station to use the restroom and to get something to eat. The lady at the counter was so nice, she gave me 2 free candies. She said, for our baby ;) But, I must say, I wasn't happy at all when I went inside of the restroom because of what I saw. I won't mention it anymore, but I am pretty sure you know what I'm talking about. I had no choice but to hold back for a few more minutes till we got to the house of the person we were picking the rims up from. Matt, [the guy's name who sold the rims] and my husband had a short talk before we started driving back home.

Wait..Our little adventure that day didn't end there :) On our way to Rialto, we saw this museum in Riverside - the March Field Air Museum. So, on our way home, we decided to stop by and see all the aircrafts being displayed there. Too bad we didn't take our camera with us, but since John's phone can take photos, we used that one. We only took a couple photos. It was so hot out there that I had to use an umbrella while walking outside and taking a look at the aircrafts. It was fun and I wished we could have stayed longer, but I started feeling unwell so we had to leave. But, like what we always love to do - every time we visit a place for the first time, we always stop by at the souvenir shop to get something. I bought a wristband for myself that says "Support Our Troops" and John got himself a postcard for mom, a freeze dried ice cream [first time we ate it], and a small photo frame of an F14 jet. And of course, Daddy and Mommy got something for our little angel as well - a small Uncle Sam rubber duck ;)

The heat got in to me and caused a slight headache, so I slept most of the way back home. But it was indeed a fun road trip and I really enjoyed every minute of it :)
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So Much To Write About..

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It's only been 6 days [today] since I got here in the States, but for me, it already feels like longer than that. Aside from the fact that I miss my family back home, every single day has been a long one, especially those days I've spent at home alone when everyone has gone to work. But, for the past five days, every time my husband came home from work, he'd always taken me out for a drive to get something or for us to do things together. He doesn't want staying at home and wasting time for nothing and plus, he knows it would help me adjust faster and would help me with my homesickness. And I'm happy to say that I may haven't been here that long yet, but I've done a lot of things already. There's really so much for me to write about my first week here in San Diego, but today, my husband is going to take me to Balboa, to a Military hospital, to get me in to NTC and for me to have my first check-up here. I hope it won't take that long because he also needs to report to work real quick to get something done. He said he might take me with him but I'll just stay in the car since it won't take him too long to finish it. I'm sure it's going to be a great day :) Driving around with my husband is so much fun and I love it!!

So, got to go. I will update here soon..Justify Full
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I'm Cross-Stitching..Again :)

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Since I am the only one usually left in the house everyday when my husband leaves for work, I incline to feel bored and homesick. Most of the time, I have nobody to talk to, nothing else to do but hop on the computer and wander around the net. So, yesterday, when my husband got off from work, he took me out for a drive. I asked him for I don't know how many times where we were going, but he only answered me the same thing "I don't know yet. We'll just go for a drive right now."

Much to my surprise, he did not only show me the place where he used to live (Spring Valley), he also took me to Michaels!! It's an Arts and Crafts Store. I did not only buy stuff for cross-stitching, he also bought me a scrapbook. I haven't really done any scrapbook before so it's kind of new to me, though I have a lot of ideas on how to make one. I'll start doing that when I'm done with my cross-stitch :)

I chose a design perfect for our coming baby :) I can add the baby's name and birth date, and that, to me sounds so cool. I can't wait to get it done and see the final result.

It's been a while since the last time I did cross-stitching, so when I started working on my little project right now, it made me smile knowing that I still do know how to do it :) I can't wait for our little boy to finally get to see what Mommy's made for him ;) I just hope he'll like it..

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I just want to thank my husband for doing everything he can just to make things easier for me here. He knows how tough it is for me to be away from home this far and for the first time, and how adjusting to my new environment can be a pain in the a**..[hehehe] He really is doing a great, great job and I just want him to know that every little thing he did [does] was [is] appreciated. I love you more than I could even begin to tell right now!! Thank you, Mahal very, very much!!

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Our Baby's Kicking and Punching!!

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Ever since our Baby Boy started making movements inside my belly, I haven't had sleep like I used to. During my first few weeks of my 2nd trimester, he would only make it hard for me to go to sleep early at night. But now that he's 6 months, he moves a lot and he kicks or punches Mommy on both sides all the time. [hehehe] Though his movements sometimes knock my socks off, keep me up till it's late at night, and wake me up so early, still I can't help but smile at it every single time. Nothing can really beat that feeling knowing you are nurturing a new life inside of you and especially when the baby starts responding to sounds and movements from the outside!! He responds with a strong kick or a punch every time I rub my hands gently around my belly - especially when it's DaddyPhotobucket It's as if he's trying to play with him. Yes, he likes to move a lot whenever Daddy's hand is on my tummy. Of course, Mommy feels so happy every time she sees that big smile on Daddy's face when he feels his little boy responding to him :) The joy is so beyond compare!! I oh so love being pregnant and we both just can't wait to finally see our little bundle of joy. Just few more months to go and he will be with us :)
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Across the Globe: Flight-To-The-U.S. Experience

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Flying has never been an issue to me before, until this trip coming here to the States. I've always enjoyed traveling by plane going to my hometown in Samar (Eastern Visayas, Philippines), when visiting my family. Why wouldn't I enjoy it? I'd get home in less than 24 hours, and yet, not so tired to go out and spend the rest of the day with my family. We used to travel all the way from Manila to Samar by bus, and that usually takes 24 hours to get there. So, imagine how tired you'd be once you get to your destination. That's why I've started to love and enjoy traveling by plane every time I'd go home for a vacation.

But, being on the plane for the first time for eleven hours is a totally different story!!

We arrived at NAIA (Ninoy Aquino International Airport) few minutes before 8AM. Our flight to Taipei didn't leave until 11:30. Our flight time was originally 10:55, but since the plane arrived an hour late, it was delayed.

When we boarded the plane going to Taipei, Taiwan for our 4-hour layover, I didn't worry a bit at all. The flight only took 2 hours and I've already traveled longer than that when I went to Malaysia last year, so I knew it was going to be just fine. Though my legs kind of hurt while inside the plane during the flight, it didn't bother me that much. I was able to tolerate it all the way to Taipei. I only even slept for less than an hour. I was awake most of the time. But, by the time we started walking inside the Taoyuan International Airport, my legs, especially the left one, started hurting and had me limping all the way to the waiting area. John and I walked around for a little bit before we headed to the waiting area for our next flight. It was really an experience for the both of us because when we finally decided to get something to eat, we couldn't find a place to eat at where they take credit cards. Every single one of them only accepts payments in cash and there was no ATM machine inside the place to pull out money from. We were so hungry and because of me being pregnant, I could only take too much. My head started hurting and my legs felt so numb, I had to tell my husband I needed to sit down and rest. He took me to the nearest waiting area to sit and relax, while he went to find ways how to get food for us. I think it took him almost 30 minutes to finally at least get something for our empty tummies. I don't know exactly how long he's been gone because all I remember is, I've been in and out of sleep while waiting for him. I really appreciate that he didn't give up finding a way to get us food because he knew I was so hungry and I needed to take medicine that our Aunt prescribed me for the baby for the whole trip. And do you know what saved us that time? It wasn't an ATM machine, but a five [500] hundred peso bill that he didn't know he still had in his pocket. He just found out he still had one when he tried to reach further inside. What a relief that was for us! He said, he hurriedly went to the Money Exchange and had it changed to NT$ (New Taiwan Dollar). A 500 peso bill saved us!! None of us really thought we'd still have that amount of money left since we bought stuff at the airport in the Philippines to basically make use of the extra money we had that, obviously, we won't be using here in the States. But, God really makes a way, where there seems to be no way!! And again, we know we can't thank Him enough for being with us during that time.

Anyway, at around 4:10 PM (May 5th), we started boarding the plane again. This time, for a much longer hours of flight - 11 HOURS!! We were seated almost at the very end part of the plane - Seats 56 A and B. My husband let me have the window seat, but I only got to have a view of the outside for an hour or two because they ordered to shut all the windows and never got to open them again till the plane started to descend to prepare for landing. But it was totally fine with me. I wouldn't have enjoyed the Pacific Ocean view, if they had let me leave the windows open, anyway. I just busied myself listening music on the iPod and watching movies [that I never even finished] every now and then. But like the first flight, I slept most of the time, while my husband spent his time watching almost all the movies available in that plane. We brought magazines with us to read, too but I think none of us really read them. Well, I opened mine but just scanned the pages through and that's it. I only even used the lavatory twice all throughout the flight. I had to at least stand and walk around to promote better circulation and to prevent my lower extremities from getting swollen. It did help, but I started getting anxious by the time the plane hit its 9th hour being in the air. I wanted to see land!! I wanted to open the windows but I couldn't - they won't allow you to do so. I tried to fall back to sleep, but the anxiety was keeping me up. I would fall asleep, but in just a few minutes, I'd wake up and find myself struggling to breath. I started to worry somehow, but I never told my husband. I didn't want him to worry about me. I knew, he, too needed some rest. I knew right then and there that I'll forever dread flying on a plane that long. If only I have another choice.

The plane began its descent at around 12:30PM US time (May 5th). By that time, I no longer had enough room for worrying. Good thing, though because the moment I opened the window and saw the US soil right below me, I started regaining my strength. My first words were, "Wow, there's the land!!" Honestly, I kind of forgot I was already inside the US territory because I'd been that anxious to finally get to land and know that we are safe. But, when I heard my husband said, "That's America right there", only then did it hap to me again that I was indeed already inside the USA and that it was our final destination. Of course, I'd be a total hypocrite if I say I didn't feel any excitement, when I was, as a matter of fact, so full of it. I felt very, very happy to finally be here because of the fact that my husband and I no longer have to deal with long-distance relationship and all the hardships that come along with it. Now, we can finally start the family we've always been wanting and praying for. It's our time now to really start this journey as husband and wife - and as parents-to-be. There's so much for us to do, a lot for me to adjust to. But in due time, we both know we're going to make it. John always assures me that everything will be just fine - and I know they will be :) God is with us, like He's always been. And we both know, that if we Have him, everything will be all right.

We finally set foot on the US soil a few minutes past 13:00. We stood in line at the immigration but only took us like probably 4 minutes to get everything done; the man who's in charge took our passports, my packet that I got from the US Embassy, scanned my fingerprints, and took a photo of me. Then, he handed me back my packet and passport and told us to go to another immigration officer. There, another officer took my right index fingerprint and let me sign two different kinds of document. Then, he took my passport and packet and told us to grab our luggage and come back to have them inspected. We did as we're told, only to find out that we were bound to wait for a good, boring 2 hours for nothing!! [hehehe] But, everything has a reason. Though we were so anxious to leave the place, we survived and made it till, finally, my name was called. Two officers talked to us and handed John some papers. The lady officer was so nice, she even welcomed me and our unborn baby here in the States :) It only took like 3 minutes, then we were off to go. John was a bit worried that the customs might check our luggage and that means another waiting time and we didn't want that any longer!! We've waited long enough and we were then so hungry again. Good thing, they just took the blue customs form and they let us pass. And, that's it! We headed out of the airport to wait for John's friends, Kimo and Chanhthy, who drove to LAX to pick us up. They took two cars with them, Chanhthy's and John's cars so we'll have enough room for us and our luggage - we brought 4 big suitcases with us. It was my first time to meet them in person. We've only been talking through chat, but I know they're a nice couple :) And, I wasn't wrong about that!! They indeed are super nice :)

We drove to their place first, took a short rest, and then headed out again to get something to eat. Kimo took us to Hooters in Anaheim. It was a very new experience for me - culture shock, I should say. Just a bit hard for me to say in words right now. [hehehe] Anyway, after we ate, we went back to their place, took another rest and then drove down here in San Diego. It was past 8PM already when we left that's why I was kind of worried my husband would fall asleep while driving. We were both so tired. But then again, I knew God would keep us safe. I just said a short prayer before we started driving home. It was a good hour and 54-minute drive from their place. I said I would keep us both awake, but I ended up falling asleep. [hehehe] Thank you, Mahal for just letting me rest. And sorry for not keeping my words. [hahaha]

Well, that's it. Just wanted to share my own experience. There's more updates to come. I now have more time to blog since I am left home alone during the day when he's off to work and there's nothing really right now for me to do. But here soon, I'd be busy doing something :)
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I Am in San Diego, California Now!!

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So happy that finally, I am here in the US now to be with my husband!! We flew in with CAL and had a supposed-to-be 4 hours of layover in Taipei. But since the flight going to Taiwan got delayed for an hour, we only stayed there for about 2 hours and some minutes before we had to go and board the plane again going to LAX. The 11-hour long flight from Taipei, I must say, is something I know for sure, I'll be dreading here to do ever again. [Hahaha] As if I have any other choice.

Anyway, we just got here about a couple of hours ago though we're still up, we're trying to get some rest since we weren't able to get enough sleep on the plane. Plus, the time changes is slowly getting in to me and it's kind of making me feel even more tired right now. I'd try to get some sleep here in a few. Staying up, I know, won't be good for me and our baby.

We're so thankful to God for our safe trip. :)

Will update more soon..
sigsig

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