I'm all about time-traveling. And my time machine? Photos.
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taken on June 14, 2009 |
For my first Memory Lane photo, I chose our first photo together here in the US. This was taken in Old Town San Diego when my husband took me there. I was already 7 months pregnant with our oldest in this photo. He took me out to show me around San Diego because at the time, I just got here. It was a good way for me to walk around as well, and I had a great time! We also ate at a Mexican Restaurant there, and after that, we went to a candy store and we bought a lot of candies! Of course, I didn't get to eat as much as I wanted to, because he didn't allow me. For the whole time I've been pregnant with our 3 kids, he was a "sugar-nazi". I couldn't eat sweets every time he was around. The only times I was able to really eat whatever I want, when he was at work. But, whenever I had cravings, he went and bought them for me. I was into cakes and cupcakes, and anything sweet, so I baked a lot while pregnant.
Anyway, when I look at this photo, I cannot help but compare how easy it was then for us to go to places because we didn't have babies yet. I remember, my husband would take me out for a drive every time he'd come home early from work. He would send me a message ahead of time, so I can have enough time to get ready before he'd get home. Those were the times when we were still able to go out on "dates". Now, I cannot even remember how a movie theater looks like anymore! Seriously. It's been that long. I miss our bonding moments, just the two of us. And, I think it won't be anytime soon that we'll get to do those things again.
I just miss "us", that's all! =(
Anyway, when I look at this photo, I cannot help but compare how easy it was then for us to go to places because we didn't have babies yet. I remember, my husband would take me out for a drive every time he'd come home early from work. He would send me a message ahead of time, so I can have enough time to get ready before he'd get home. Those were the times when we were still able to go out on "dates". Now, I cannot even remember how a movie theater looks like anymore! Seriously. It's been that long. I miss our bonding moments, just the two of us. And, I think it won't be anytime soon that we'll get to do those things again.
I just miss "us", that's all! =(

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oh, i hope you will soon have your "us" time, a beautiful date, i know it is hard to have a date with kids around, if you are near, i can volunteer to baby sit while you two have a beautiful date.love sweets too :)
Hahaha tawa ako sa pagiging nazi ni J mo hehehe. You mean 7 months pregggy ka when you came here in the US? If yes then parehas tayo, I came here when I was 7 months preggy with Rye hehehe.. May Nostalgia meme ako dati but phased it out, parang memory lane din..
I am tempted to post an old pic of me and my hubby. Yes, indeed...old photos as nostalgic.
It's nice to reminisce especially when it was just the two of you. Like you said, it was easier to go around then without little ones in tow.
I used to feel trapped before when my daughter was just growing up. And I am a wanderlust so I have to keep moving and going out of towns. I had to lie-low for a while with my travels until she was old enough to understand why we travel a lot.
She's all grown-up now and enjoys going to different places too. Soon, you'll be travelling with your elder kids without a worry. Trust me, few more years:)
You know what, each time na frustrations come in to our relationship, I can't help it but to browse on old photos. Kaka-relax and come in as inspiration.
I am like you! The photos I have, the old ones mainly, are my machine to travel back in time. It's always fun every time!
Kids indeed can sometimes stop us from going anywhere we want to. But I won't trade motherhood to all those trips still! Lol. Since we got kids, NEVER na kami ni hubby nakapag-date na kami lang dalawa. We always have our little boss(es) with us. Paano kasi, walang maiiwanan dito! :D
Awww... you guys should make sure you still have time together. A date night a month. It is so easy to drift apart when we don't connect with our respective spouses.
it's nice to reminisce sweet beginnings.... you two look great together talaga po..
cheers to your marriage and to your kids.. :))
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